Kind of hard to explain without jargon so I'll have someone else do it:[URL=http://http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abilene_paradox]http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abilene_paradox[/URL]. I can't think of one I have been part of right now (my memory's shot; remembering pointless things that happened over ten years but unable to remember what I had for lunch yesterday) anybody have one they are willing to share? When I remember one I'll post it, most likely tomorrow, but until feel free to provide examples. This was a pointless waste time I am unable to remove so feel free to ignore this thread and my foolishness.